Prayers amigo!
The BP is up there but not too awful. I can’t interpret A1C, but can you give us a handle on the mg/dl?
I am sorry about your wife — the burden for you must be really heavy and difficult to carry. Of course if your health is flagging, that is even more a problem and compounds your burden — let us all pray to break the cycle.
I don’t know who we ping for the prayer warriors but you have mine and a BTTT for what it is worth.
A1C 12 = 297 mg/dl, that 24/7.