It should be that way, but it is the jerks that more often gets the woman to go home with him for the night. Just go to any bar scene and watch who takes the women home.
I understand what your saying, but I think it’s more simple than that. I’ve played music in bands for 25 years and I’ve been in and out of every bar in this country at least twice.
The simple truth about such things, and you can take this to the bank, is that the guy that can stay awake the longest is who takes the girl home from the bar!
They can’t help it. It’s biologically built in for them to put men through stamina tests. Women in bars seem to think that God goes to bed around 3am and if they only wait that long they can get sneak one past him. :P