The most selfish person I have even known used to threaten suicide whenever she wanted attention. She got pancreatic cancer, and fought the good fight. She actually beat it, against all odds. But then she pulled one of her famous bluffs. She stopped treatment with only four chemo infusions left. She checked into hospice, and told everybody she was dying. After she sucked up all the emotional support she could get, she tried to check out of hospice and continue her chemo, but it was too late. The cancer came back with a vengeance, and she died a miserable death, crying constantly for at least a couple weeks straight with no break, and begging for someone/anyone/everyone to save her life. She had three sons that were raised by anyone she could dump them on, and yet they were there by her side, trying to help her any way they could. She never offered them one word of comfort, advice, support, apology, or anything that they could carry with them throughout their lives. She even played her selfish little petty games on her death bed, deliberately causing fights among her family and friends, just for her own sick entertainment. And that’s how she will always be remembered.
Wow.
Sounds like Dolores Aguilar...
http://redwolf.newsvine.com/_news/2008/08/17/1757371-obituaries-dolores-aguilar
Dolores Aguilar, born in 1929 in New Mexico, left us on August 7, 2008. She will be met in the afterlife by her husband, Raymond, her son, Paul Jr., and daughter, Ruby.
She is survived by her daughters Marietta, Mitzi, Stella, Beatrice, Virginia and Ramona, and son Billy; grandchildren, Donnelle, Joe, Mitzie, Maria, Mario, Marty, Tynette, Tania, Leta, Alexandria, Tommy, Billy, Mathew, Raymond, Kenny, Javier, Lisa, Ashlie and Michael; great-grandchildren, Brendan, Joseph, Karissa, Jacob, Delaney, Shawn, Cienna, Bailey, Christian, Andre Jr., Andrea, Keith, Saeed, Nujaymah, Salma, Merissa, Emily, Jayci, Isabella, Samantha and Emily. I apologize if I missed anyone.
Dolores had no hobbies, made no contribution to society and rarely shared a kind word or deed in her life. I speak for the majority of her family when I say her presence will not be missed by many, very few tears will be shed and there will be no lamenting over her passing.
Her family will remember Dolores and amongst ourselves we will remember her in our own way, which were mostly sad and troubling times throughout the years. We may have some fond memories of her and perhaps we will think of those times too. But I truly believe at the end of the day ALL of us will really only miss what we never had, a good and kind mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. I hope she is finally at peace with herself. As for the rest of us left behind, I hope this is the beginning of a time of healing and learning to be a family again.
There will be no service, no prayers and no closure for the family she spent a lifetime tearing apart. We cannot come together in the end to see to it that her grandchildren and great-grandchildren can say their goodbyes. So I say here for all of us, GOOD BYE, MOM.