At a 4 way stop?
ALWAYS look at who’s already there before you get there. That way you get there - you stop - you go.
Nothing is worse than 4 morons pulling up to a 4 way stop sign and then wondering who got there first. Wondering who should go.
I often see someone at a 4 way first. But since they weren’t paying attention, I pull out first while they are still stuck on stupid.
One of the Texas outlaw comics had a joke in the 1980s that if you get to a 4-way stop in Houston and you don't know who's turn it is, it isn't yours. And you should probably pack a lunch because you're going to be there awhile...