Kim Kommandos site is good place to look for nannyware ....
She has a child about same age.
Safe site to search.
Beware, the American Library Association is anti-filtering and coaches kids in how to circumvent filtering software.
http://www.ala.org/ala/aboutala/offices/oif/ifissues/issuesrelatedlinks/whyfilterswontprotect.cfm
“Plus young people have little trouble finding these unblocked sites or loading software that bypasses filters altogether.3”
3. See, for example, Peacefire’s Web site, Instructions for Getting around Blocking Software. Accessed Sept. 2, 2003, www.peacefire.org/circumventor/simple-circumventor-instructions.html. The circumventor program that anonymously circumvents filtering software was developed by the U.S. government’s International Broadcasting Bureau, which broadcasts the Voice of America, in order to defeat filtering in China and other countries that suppress or monitor Internet use of their citizens.