ETs could have had sensors or local outposts in this sector for thousands of years prior to WWII, for any number of reasons. Those sensors would have picked up and relayed the signature of atomic detonations, which would have brought on an investigative mission.
That's one theory. I can think of others.
There's every chance that the Sol system is already a territory of some political entity, such as a confederation, empire, or such. If so, there would be remote monitoring, at the very least. Face to face contact would likely be discouraged (if not banned) because of our relative primitive state of evolution.
And how much time would it take for this information to reach its destination?
Cordially,