No offense intended, but your vanity reads like a "but, but, but.....it's not my fault!". Heck, the title of your vanity includes a "be kind to me" comment.
My mother-in-law always said, "it's an easy lesson when no one gets hurt".
I said be kind to me because I didn’t know if I was posting properly, thank you, having never done that. And technically none of it is my fault, I’m the mom not the test taker or test giver. So I don’t see where I’m saying ‘it’s not my fault”, etc. I just asked a question to see how others would approach the matter.