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1 posted on 08/13/2009 9:40:05 AM PDT by nickcarraway
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2 posted on 08/13/2009 9:46:02 AM PDT by WakeUpAndVote
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Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?

Yeah, I gotta beat 'em off with a stick.

'specially around their meal time.

3 posted on 08/13/2009 9:46:10 AM PDT by martin_fierro (< |:)~)
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In my experience, a wedding ring is like a letter of recommendation.

Now that I'm married, I'm one of those good men who are always taken. When I was single, the same women who regret that I'm off the market wouldn't give me the time of day.
4 posted on 08/13/2009 9:48:06 AM PDT by VisualizeSmallerGovernment
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If you’re attached she figures that at least one woman thought you were OK. If you’re not attached, she wonders why.


5 posted on 08/13/2009 9:49:33 AM PDT by Leftism is Mentally Deranged
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"Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?"

Yes, men that are 'attached' to huge bank accounts.

6 posted on 08/13/2009 9:52:58 AM PDT by ETL (ALL the Obama-commie connections at my FR Home page: http://www.freerepublic.com/~etl/)
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I didn’t read beyond the excerpt posted here. Does the word “marriage” figure into it at all? Or is “committed relationship” as strong as it gets when they were asking the questions? Just curious.

MM


7 posted on 08/13/2009 9:53:26 AM PDT by MississippiMan
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two social psychologists, Melissa Burkley and Jessica Parker of Oklahoma State University.

Noting that single women often complain that “all the good men are taken,” the psychologists wondered if “this perception is really based on the fact that taken men are perceived as good.”

As our industrial base further diminishes and our increasingly impoverished nation begins to buckle under the weight of unsustainable burdens, the contribution one of our publicly-supported research universities is making to our country is to investigate the question, "are all the good men really taken?"

Thanks, ladies, for your important work.

9 posted on 08/13/2009 10:01:16 AM PDT by SirJohnBarleycorn
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I should show this article to my wife. She’s always pressuring me to get a wedding ring and wear it. I’m one of those people who absolutely hates wearing any kind of jewelry, including rings. The only thing I’ll wear is a watch.


11 posted on 08/13/2009 10:03:12 AM PDT by AlaskaErik (I served and protected my country for 31 years. Democrats spent that time trying to destroy it.)
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When that same man was described as being in a committed relationship, 90percent were interested

This means stead, not necessarily married. When a man is in that state, he is almost married (marriageable material). Then it is easy to come along and pick off the fruit from someone who has labored long and hard.

Taking a married man, is a loosing proposition, because he soon learns that he can get another interested woman just the same.

15 posted on 08/13/2009 10:14:11 AM PDT by sr4402
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The article said — But single women showed a distinct preference for mate poaching. When the man was described as unattached, 59 percent of the single women were interested in pursuing him. When that same man was described as being in a committed relationship, 90 percent were interested.

Ummm..., I’ve seen that principle in operation, in real life... :-)

[... coming under the “strange but true” category.... ]


18 posted on 08/13/2009 10:15:54 AM PDT by Star Traveler (The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is a Zionist and Jerusalem is the apple of His eye.)
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It’s neurotic women seeking to prove they’re “good enough” to ruin someone else’s marriage. If they actually pull off an affair, they lose interest and move on to assault another family.


20 posted on 08/13/2009 10:25:22 AM PDT by Trod Upon (Obama: Making the Carter malaise look good. Misery Index in 3...2...1)
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Ok, as a single woman, I’ll explain this:

First, says my very Catholic mother, a man is not taken until the wedding ring is on his finger, and I agree with that. Once a man is married, he’s totally off limits, but if a man is just in a relationship with someone, and I’m interested in him, that relationship is not a deterrent to getting to know him (meaning: NOTHING physical, no hugging, no kissing, just talking to someone), because there is no indicia of permanence. It’s just a relationship, and relationships break up - often because people find someone else whom they think is better suited to them. So I’d talk to the guy, get to know him, etc. and then he gets to make his own decision - stay in the relationship he’s in because it’s working out or not.

Second, it’s an indication that a man is not a total horndog. He’s not yet really taken, but he’s interested in something stable and perhaps lasting. And that’s attractive to nearly all women and, from what I can tell from my skewed NYC perspective, not very attractive to a whole lot of men.


22 posted on 08/13/2009 10:28:33 AM PDT by cammie
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Women generally have a hard time thinking for themselves, in as far as choosing a man.


30 posted on 08/13/2009 11:23:52 AM PDT by wolfman
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31 posted on 08/13/2009 11:41:47 AM PDT by Slings and Arrows (Crazy is the new sane.)
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Not Lorena Bobbitt.


35 posted on 08/13/2009 3:10:45 PM PDT by polymuser ("We have a right to debate and disagree with any administration!" (HRC))
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Been a while since a pingable thread came along. Sorry, FRiends.
43 posted on 08/14/2009 2:10:51 AM PDT by RandallFlagg (30-year smoker, E-Cigs helped me quit, and O wants me back smoking again?)
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Women are the most competitive creatures on the planet.

They can't resist the urge to take another woman's man.

46 posted on 08/14/2009 5:51:30 AM PDT by ryan71 (We're in deep kimchi!)
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it is just a coo coo (sp?) bird behavior.

Humans do MANY differnet things. To say this is a set behavior in such a large population is dubious at best.

Star Trek was cancelled in the 1960’s but the small fan base kept the franchise alive. Does this mean EVERYONE in the USA is a latent fan of the series? don’t think so.


50 posted on 08/14/2009 7:19:44 AM PDT by longtermmemmory (VOTE! http://www.senate.gov and http://www.house.gov)
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55 posted on 08/16/2009 7:02:50 PM PDT by SunkenCiv (https://secure.freerepublic.com/donate/__Since Jan 3, 2004__Profile updated Monday, January 12, 2009)
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Only if he’s rich.


56 posted on 08/16/2009 7:06:14 PM PDT by madison10
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