That doesn't strike you as a personal attack?
It's a RELENTLESSLY REPEATED one by naysayers on these threads. It helps shred virtually any possibility of decent dialogue by the more than 150 of us interested in serious dialogue on the topic.
And, imho, it's also grossly hypocritical and ironic in terms of most naysayers.
I mean this well, but honestly, that post is weird.
“And, imho, it’s [”You’re too gullible dude.”] also grossly hypocritical and ironic in terms of most naysayers.”
ooooooookay then.
I pray God’s peace for you. Personal change is an incremental process. It can take many years. It might help to have a picture in your mind of where you want to be in 2 years, in 3 years, not just in your job and finances and relationships, but also in terms of who you are, and the peace of mind you would like to have.