Your story brought tears to my eyes. God Bless Lance and his wonderful family. I will surely offer prayers for him that the doctors can get to the root of his problems. Blood in urine can be symptoms of kidney or bladder problems. I had a husband with kidney problems and a brother in law with bladder problems. Not feeling well and with the blood in the urine go together and he must get to the bottom of it soon.
I would advise him to be firm with the doctors. Doctors will dance all around unless they know you mean business and you know something’s not right.
Remembering him in prayers.
Thank you dear, I am very hopeful the doctors will be able to help him. He sounded not himself on the phone today, not “up” and spunky. He said he’s had so many tests, he shyly said they are, “invasive”. He said he always hated going to doctors but heck, now they’ve seen “it” all and his embarrassment is no longer there. I was going to tell him how my sister in law described childbirth, she told me you’d be surprised after the group of medical people in the delivery room have seen “it all”, how you learn to not care. We are all so modest and raised to be that way, that baring it all is not natural to us. Lance has to be OK. He has so much to live for and so much he gives to others. Thanks for your prayers!