This is how your post made me feel:
1. List the post number of the lies and any proof they are lies and report the person to the moderator. If the moderator leaves theperson alone, you may be misinterpreting what's going on or omitting your own part of the problem.
2. Call attention to your victimhood and get as much sympathy as you can. Repeat the problem to everyone who comes along.
3. Admit what's going on. Forget about your own culpability (people seldom just pick people out and tell lies about them)and get over it.