That’s something couples should figure out before they have the first baby. It was an absolute blessing to us that we had already set things up so we were living on one salary when my husband lost his job this summer. (Of course, it was supposed to be his salary that we were living on, but mine worked!)
Now he’s got a new great job and I’m still chipping in until my baby’s born... maybe part time afterwards if my company continues to want my services part time and from home.
You’re right. Without a plan and being sure you can afford to stay home you’re gambling. You can make it, but...being worn out all the time and stressed over money isn’t the best recipe for good mothering.
Jen, are you expecting a baby??