Yup good suggestions by Flamenco Lady and nodumbblonde. A women’s perspective and expriences will be the best feedback for the original poster.
I’d also reiterate what I’m sure others have already said: Go to a reputable gun shop and HOLD everything!
I’d pretty much decided on another gun when I headed to the gun dealer and I changed my mind almost immediately. I didn’t like the way it was weighted and it just didn’t feel right. No way to know that until I actually held it.