I’d also reiterate what I’m sure others have already said: Go to a reputable gun shop and HOLD everything!
I’d pretty much decided on another gun when I headed to the gun dealer and I changed my mind almost immediately. I didn’t like the way it was weighted and it just didn’t feel right. No way to know that until I actually held it.
Good point. Holding the gun in your hand will give you a good idea what feels right. Talking with other ladies or a female salesperson or instructor is invaluable. There are a lot of ladies out there with the same questions. After the election, a lady I know said she wanted to get a gun and a carry license. I was shocked. She never had an interest before. My guess is a lot of women have the same questions now.