No you are not a Catholic, you may call yourself one, but you left the Church when you stopped believing her dogmatic teachings.
A church making second class citizens out of persons because of their physical disabilities is not love, it is not compassion, it is not even Christ like, It is WRONG! Whom did Chrit go to first? The sick, the lame, the afflicted by skin disorders, the blind, the deaf. How dare any church turn such as these away. It has not love but the Law and so by the law shall it be judged.
Guess you’d have to talk to my priest at the time who was my instructor as he had no problem with my logic. I was also a lector at that church.