It is a shame.
However, I grew up on the wrong side of town, had a pretty much absent father for most of the time, a wholly incapable mother, and lots VERY bad influences. I knew many weak-willed people who failed, but there are many who go through those conditions and yet through hard work and self-discipline, make it in the world.
The point: Those conditions are an excuse not a reasoned explanation.
Nothing in my reply (please re-read) condoned his choices or lifestyle. My son had a similiar background. He now holds a Masters in Accountancy, and holds a “high-up position” {he’s a big dog :)}in a national company. I just simply filled in a little background of Renfro’s.