You'll be fine but you gotta do what you gotta do and that means "get to a doctor".
We're all thinking of you....Sac
I remember that in Seidlin's Court, when asked about the marriage, Howard said it was under litigation...and was done with "bad advice". I'll bet that California recognized both the birth certificate AND the marriage as a "Civil Union" with no license required.
There's so much "sneaky" in every twist and turn....only the WHOLE TRUTH will solve this.