[PayNoAttentionManBehindCurtain]

Good morning.

It’s very cold here today, and they are predicting snow this weekend....I hate winter:)

Been busy. I’m finding out there are lots of legal things to deal with when a spouse dies...and it’s all pretty depressing, and trying to find out the best way to go about things is proving to be a challenge. I guess if Mack taught me anything (not sure if it’s a good thing or bad:), but don’t trust anyone, their only out for their own gain...and everyone has different opinions and advise...sigh...sorry for the downer post, but it’s all getting to me.

Becky

[PayNoAttentionManBehindCurtain]

LOL...Duchess, I was going to add, your chickens are cute. I had aracunas for a while. They do lay beautiful eggs, that look so pretty in a carton. Good luck with them.

Becky

[HairOfTheDog]

Ugh... Becky I’m sorry you have to go through all that.

Good morning. It’s actually supposed to be kindof nice here the rest of the week.

I know you all hate winter but I would have liked to have had more snow... But not today, I have to go get hay.

[Tuscaloosa Goldfinch]

I'm sorry you're having to deal with the legal stuff, and I hope you can get some good advice from someone who doesn't have any ulterior motives.

And I hope you get an early spring!

[Beaker]

Becky,

When my Papa passed away, I delt with all of the legal issues that came about for my Nana. It really sucks, and my heart goes out to you. I know, I know that it just isn't the same, and that I'm seeing it from a different perspective, but if you need anything, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to PM me.

[Duchess47]

> I guess if Mack taught me anything (not sure if it’s a good thing or bad:), but don’t trust anyone, their only out for their own gain...<

For some reason, a death seems to either bring out the very best of a person, or the very worst. There just doesn’t seem to be any middle of the road.

I think Mack’s advice was a very good thing, you really need to keep your eyes open and your wits about you right now. If it turns out that someone is not focused only on their own gain you can be pleasently surprised. Much better than being horribly disappointed and losing something important because you have taken someone at face value and they turn out to be less than you thought.

I wish we were close enough to be of help to you - don’t worry about downer posts. If you can’t bitch at us, who can you :)

[Duchess47]

> I guess if Mack taught me anything (not sure if it’s a good thing or bad:), but don’t trust anyone, their only out for their own gain...<

For some reason, a death seems to either bring out the very best of a person, or the very worst. There just doesn’t seem to be any middle of the road.

I think Mack’s advice was a very good thing, you really need to keep your eyes open and your wits about you right now. If it turns out that someone is not focused only on their own gain you can be pleasently surprised. Much better than being horribly disappointed and losing something important because you have taken someone at face value and they turn out to be less than you thought.

I wish we were close enough to be of help to you - don’t worry about downer posts. If you can’t bitch at us, who can you :)