I would have an easier time perfecting automotive fuel-cells, than understanding how to respond to women nowdays in a way they find likable!!
Yeah, I suppose we all go through periods where it all feels like too much trouble, maybe even long periods...but don’t give up...there is always that possibility of a wonderful, ‘chance’ happening.
It seems to me you had some good moments, conversations and get-togethers with your recent lady friend. It hasn’t continued like you hoped it would, but, overall, it sounded like worthwhile time spent together.
And, it will make the next time easier and more comfortable for you, right? Hope so.
Nancy
Heck dude, I know how you feel. I just stopped asking about five years ago and never looked back. If they don't ask me it don't get asked, and they don't ask.
I just got tired of jumping through the hoops and decided to live my life on my terms and not theirs. There are very few ladies now that will accept you for what you are instead of what they want.
I see more and more men coming to that conclusion and just realizing if they don't start taking care of themselves, no one will.
PS - if it don't work out for 'ya don't worry. Life goes on and it goes on just fine. It did for me and it would for you too.
If you get the patent on the perfected fuel-cell, you'll have no trouble finding women.