I wonder how many of us are pinging in response to bevlar's post?
A couple of quick points need to be made.
We've gotten into somewhat serious waters. That's good. Sometimes a serious discussion is good for us.Thanks,When having a serious discussion, we need to realize that emotions will sometimes run higher. As much as possible, we need to make allowances for those emotions. Someone may say something that sounds harsh, but taking a time for a deep breath and the willingness to consider that the person may not have meant anything mean can save us a great deal of bad feelings. Likewise, the discussion may not seem as fun as we'd like. Let's try to make allowances for the fact that things won't always be perfectly fun when we are discussing something serious.
As much as possible, let's try to be careful what we say when we are in the grip of emotions.
Bill