“”””If my ex-husbands mother demanded partial custody of my children because her son died I would tell her to jump in a lake....”
How would you feel about your mother asking him for partial custody if you died?
I will have total custody of both my grandchildren if anything happens to my daughter and son in law and partial custody if she is still married. Tony can fight me. He won’t because they both believe that is what’s best for all.
Jumping in here and speaking for myself.... If it was MY mother -— no way would I want her raising my kids. I suspect ANS felt as strongly as I do.