Not all men who are gay act gay...(including the ones that are out of the closet.) I have known several gay men in my lifetime. Some were very straight acting while others were very sissy like, I knew one that even did the sisy girl dress up thing. One these gay men was a good friend of mine that I very close to (pals with) since we were teens. I always knew he was gay and he joked that we all probably knew he was gay before he knew he was.
Anyhow Stern may not appear "gay" on the outside like you think he should. But there is a good chance that he is gay or bi-sexual. Who is terrified that his secret will be let out in public.
His parents!
It's already out. I'm just hoping that Birkhead or Virgie doesn't bring it up against him in court on Tuesday. Cuz the judge get pissed at that.