I'm still waiting for further info on the taking of her things. I do indeed think that Anna did a "if anything happens to me" bit and I'm betting there is some written evidence that is quietly, discreetly being held for the time being. The shock of Daniel's death and perhaps thinking about the "I hate mom tape" probably registered. Why was Howard insisting on these "public" displays?? When did the "I hate Mom" tape first air??
IIRC, ET filmed and NEVER AIRED IT while she was alive. That's why I've been so enraged about it.
When I saw it on ET, they billed it as "Never before seen video of ANS talking about her mother"!
And I can guarantee you, I was NOT watching ET before she died!