I don't that having a platonic friendship with someone of the opposite sex equates to having sexual intercourse with someone who is not your spouse. From the complaint, it appears as if he was committing adultery with a particular woman whose name was redacted, as well as his internet activities.
I meant I don't think...sorry about that/
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Of course not but that was not the point and I did not make that statement.
A poster stated that once the husband looks at porn then he has betrayed and cheated and the marriage is over. I thought that a bit extreme and wondered how two-dimensional sex is cheating. And, I did not describe a simple platonic friendship. My question is about the wife (or husband) confiding in the friend things that are not discussed with the spouse.