Well, I was the "wet blanket" and I couldn't see slowing the group for me. I'm hoping the one lady that rode with me awhile that I ran off wasn't too frustrated and might ride with me sometimes. We are both in two associations. She called to make sure I got home ok , which I thought was nice. She has the TW though that kicks:')
Well, I'm sure SL acted up worse when they were leaving, that stresses them out, they don't voluntarily leave a herd. I just wish you knew someone who understood all the issues who would work them out with you, because anyone who is experienced has been through most of the same issues. If you'd let them help, that is :~) A TW might not be the best match because they like to go so fast, but if she'll slow down and help, let her. Usually, the best thing for an inexperienced pair is to follow a very steady leader for awhile.