Well, I'm sure SL acted up worse when they were leaving, that stresses them out, they don't voluntarily leave a herd. I just wish you knew someone who understood all the issues who would work them out with you, because anyone who is experienced has been through most of the same issues. If you'd let them help, that is :~) A TW might not be the best match because they like to go so fast, but if she'll slow down and help, let her. Usually, the best thing for an inexperienced pair is to follow a very steady leader for awhile.
It's not that I wouldn't let people help. I just didn't want to be a bother. That boy can move fast even though it looked like he was not moving:') It will be better the next time. I need to learn to keep up too.