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Gay tourist healing after Caribbean island attack
Miami Herald ^ | 5/9/2006 | Steve Rothaus

Posted on 05/09/2006 2:08:27 PM PDT by FerdieMurphy

(ATTACKED: Ryan Smith, 25, is recovering in Miami Beach, after undergoing brain surgery from a brutal attack.)

(VICTIMS: Ryan Smith, center, and his boyfriend, Justin Swensen, left, were attacked in St. Maarten in April. Patricia Smith, right, learned her son was gay after the attack.)

A young CBS News employee is recovering in Miami Beach from a near-fatal gay bashing during a vacation last month in St. Maarten. Two were arrested on Saturday.

Ryan Smith's communications skills earned him an internship in the Clinton White House. He talked his way into jobs with David Letterman and CBS News.

But today, Smith, 25, has trouble saying and writing simple words.

While he and friends vacationed April 6 on the Caribbean island of St. Maarten, a small group chased them down, yelled gay slurs and smashed Smith's skull with a tire iron.

Two people were arrested Saturday and are scheduled to appear in court today, Chief Prosecutor Taco Stein told The Miami Herald.

The attack has drastically changed Smith's life.

He and his boyfriend are living in Miami Beach while he undergoes weeks of treatment for his brain injuries. His parents -- who didn't know he was gay until they learned of the attack -- have come from Ohio to help.

Smith's thought process and memory seem fine. The greatest reminder of the near-fatal beating -- not including the surgical scar that circles the left side of his head -- is his trouble speaking and writing.

For someone who earned a master's degree in journalism from Columbia University, worked as a page for Late Show with David Letterman and had been working as a production secretary for CBS' 48 Hours in New York, that has been enormously difficult.

''He was never at a loss for words. That hasn't changed. He still has a lot to say,'' his mother, Patricia Smith, said. ``But he was always able to finish his sentences.''

FLOWN TO MIAMI

After the attack, Smith and Dick Jefferson, 51, a senior producer at CBS News, were airlifted to Jackson Memorial Hospital. Jefferson suffered a fractured skull and had to have a titanium plate inserted in his head, but he was able to return to New York a few days later.

Smith's injuries were more extensive. His skull was fractured and surgeons needed to remove bone fragments lodged in his brain. There still is a soft spot on the left side of his head where doctors removed part of his skull. He needs at least one more surgery to replace the hole with a plate.

Doctors expect Smith to make a full recovery, though they don't know how long it will take.

''I am by nature very impatient,'' Smith said. ``I realize there has to be time. It's the brain. A lot of great things have happened so far. But you can't expect the impossible weeks after a major surgery. It's going to take a while to get back to the way I was.''

Smith has trouble remembering the attack, which occured about 3 a.m. near Sunset Beach Bar in Beacon Hill, Dutch St. Maarten. His boyfriend, Justin Swensen, can't forget.

'We were just holding each other in the bar. We were not kissing, not making out. Some guys just started screaming. Yelling. Overreacting. I heard one of them say `buttboys.' The bouncer asked if we would move and we did because we didn't want any trouble,'' said Swensen, 23, a New York fashion model.

ATTACKED

As Smith and Swensen left Bamboo Bernie's bar, one of the men tossed a chair at them. Neither was hit. The bar manager ordered the angry men to leave.

Outside, Smith and Swensen met up with Jefferson and a few other friends. Suddenly, a white car with three or four people inside tried to run them down, according to witnesses.

The car clipped Smith, knocking him down.

''I saw the car stop and somebody get out,'' Swensen said.

From inside the car, a man began throwing paint cans at Smith, Swensen and the others. Swensen ran to get help.

''I was panicked,'' he said. 'Then a guy says to me, `You've got to get out of here or something is going to happen to you, too.' All of a sudden, I see Ryan staggering back. . . . I can see he's covered in blood. Blood is pouring out of the wound in his head. . . . I see Dick with a shocked look on his face. He's holding his head.''

For the first few days after the attack, St. Maarten police did little to investigate, according to the victims. But after CBS and ABC News ran TV reports, the case moved ahead.

TWO ARRESTED

A man and a woman, both French St. Martin residents, were arrested Saturday, and more arrests are expected, said Stein, Dutch St. Maarten's chief prosecutor. The suspects' names were not released.

''The crimes suspected are grievous bodily harm and attempted manslaughter,'' Stein said.

The attack has caused some activists to question whether gay and lesbian travelers should visit the Caribbean.

'It is time for Americans to reassess their relationship with islands such as Jamaica, St. Maarten and the Bahamas. Either they welcome all of us, or none of us. But these `paradises' can no longer be playgrounds for heterosexuals and hunting grounds for homosexuals,'' national gay activist and Fort Lauderdale native Wayne Besen recently wrote on his website blog.

The last four weeks have been trying for Patricia Smith and her husband, Raymond, who live in Sandusky, Ohio, and didn't know their son was gay until he was nearly beaten to death.

''I had an idea but he never shared it with us. I felt he was waiting to talk to us about it,'' she said. ``We love him dearly. Nothing can change that. . . . We've had a quick learning curve. But we accept him as he is.''

Ryan Smith regrets not telling his folks sooner.

''You think your parents are going to hate you,'' he said. ``But of all the things that are going on in my life right now, the last of the things is the gay thing.''

HELP EXTENDED

Friends in New York and strangers in South Florida have reached out to Smith, his parents and Swensen. About 150 friends attended a benefit Saturday night in New York City and raised about $2,000 to help with living expenses while Smith recuperates in South Florida (He has medical and disability insurance through CBS News.).

When members of South Florida's gay community heard that Smith was staying in Miami, they moved to help.

Finance writer and gay philanthropist Andrew Tobias loaned a vacant Lincoln Road apartment to Swensen, who got a job waiting tables at Cafeteria on Lincoln Road.

Ray Breslin and partner Patrick Pecoraro donated two units at the Mantell Plaza in Miami Beach for the Smith family to use the first week, then discounted the units for the rest of their stay.

With the support of family and friends, Ryan Smith is pushing himself to recover.

''I know these guys almost killed me. But you know what? They are not going to affect who I am,'' Smith said.

''I have to talk. I am a journalist. I'm all about talking about the truth,'' he said. ``I don't want anyone to go through what happened to all of us. There were times I was in the hospital that I didn't know how to talk. I couldn't read. I couldn't watch TV. I didn't know what people were talking about.''


TOPICS: Local News
KEYWORDS: assault; biggayagenda; cantweallgetalong; gayagenda; homosexualagenda; homosexuals; letsbesensitive; letsgotothecaribbean; savagenation; truegaybashing; youresosavagebruce
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To: Constantine XIII

Hey I don't do this for a living okay.

:)


101 posted on 05/09/2006 3:03:53 PM PDT by kinghorse
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To: FormerLib
"To have this sort of disappointment in the news and learn about it in this manner.''

Yeah And this from a son who says, "I have to talk. I am a journalist. I'm all about talking about the truth''.

Except to his parents, of course.

102 posted on 05/09/2006 3:06:29 PM PDT by robertpaulsen
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To: FerdieMurphy
First having lived in the Caribbean for a number of years many of the Islands have laws that make it a crime to practice homosexuality.

Secondly, I've seen what a few rum punches, some sun and a vacation can do to most people, and the fact is that I've seen homosexuals become more open with their affection when out of sight and on vacation. When folks hit the Islands they totally become engaged in having a good time and lose respect for the traditions and laws of the Country they are vacationing in. They do not realize that most Caribbean islands are Countries and want to have their life style and way of life respected. Most Island folks are very conservative and religious by nature and don't intend to change to become politically correct for what most call "Continentals".

I don't condone beating anyone with a tire iron, but I can tell you that there is more to this MSM story than meets the eye.

As far as St. Martin/Marteen goes, it has become somewhat of a rough and tumble Island. This could have happened to a bunch of guys on vacation, but certainly being gay didn't help the situation.

When in Rome, respect their laws and traditions. They are lucky they didn't find themselves behind bars for breaking the law on some Caribbean islands!
103 posted on 05/09/2006 3:06:52 PM PDT by not2worry (What goes around comes around.)
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To: kinoxi

"see post 26."

I saw post 26, and I must be dim, I didn't get it. Can you elaborate on the point?


104 posted on 05/09/2006 3:08:54 PM PDT by mutley
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To: FerdieMurphy

Sometimes bad things happen to bad people. Cry me a river.


105 posted on 05/09/2006 3:10:03 PM PDT by CGTRWK
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To: conserv13
He claims that was not the case.

I know that, but other accounts say it was the case. So who knows? But in no way does it justify the attack. Just makes it more likely.

106 posted on 05/09/2006 3:11:07 PM PDT by luvbach1 (More true now than ever: Near the belly of the beast in San Diego)
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To: mutley

there was no harm done(i did not have to bash his skull in with a tire iron}. you seem to be on the side of the thugs that bashed this person's skull into pieces... can you elaborate?


107 posted on 05/09/2006 3:13:11 PM PDT by kinoxi
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To: Antonello
What I am asking is do you advocate allowing others to decide what you are allowed to do through threats and acts of violence?

Other people deciding what you are allowed to do through threats and acts of violence has been with us since the dawn of man, and another word for it is society.

108 posted on 05/09/2006 3:14:05 PM PDT by CGTRWK
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To: Xenalyte

I'm stuned.


109 posted on 05/09/2006 3:22:59 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Dump the 1967 Outer Space Treaty! I'll weigh 50% less on Mars!)
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To: kinoxi

"there was no harm done(i did not have to bash his skull in with a tire iron}. you seem to be on the side of the thugs that bashed this person's skull into pieces... can you elaborate?"

Yes, I can elaborate. I have said that it was inappropriate action. My point was...that there are many other things or events that trouble me more, than some fairy getting bashed in the tropics. It's trivial.


110 posted on 05/09/2006 3:26:00 PM PDT by mutley
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To: Freedom_no_exceptions
"If I witness something that's uncomfortable to watch, but otherwise harmless to me personally, I use my neck to turn my head."

And if some dirty old man exposes himself to your daughter or your wife, you be sure to tell them to turn their head away also.

The homosexuals were flaunting their gayness in public as they are wont to do, and the behavior was rude and offensive to others. I'm tired of turning my head. So are others. We're tired of having this crap shoved in our faces, and we're tired of being told we have to take it.

A tire iron went too far -- they should have simply been hosed down with cold water as you would with rutting dogs. Too bad for Smith. I wonder how long his soulmate will hang around damaged goods.

111 posted on 05/09/2006 3:29:11 PM PDT by robertpaulsen
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To: conserv13

You don't know that Natalee was taking drugs. That is just a rumor, started by people who don't know, either. Her character before Aruba tells us she probably didn't.


112 posted on 05/09/2006 3:30:40 PM PDT by Rte66
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To: mutley
they broke this person's skull. if you feel it was inappropriate as i do, stop posting to me on this subject
113 posted on 05/09/2006 3:32:02 PM PDT by kinoxi
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To: kinoxi; not2worry
You are missing the point. Americans that go to a foreign country need to be careful and not engage in questionable or unsafe behaviour. THAT is what most Freepers are saying and this line from the article bears out that point.

For the first few days after the attack, St. Maarten police did little to investigate, according to the victims. But after CBS and ABC News ran TV reports, the case moved ahead.

You also need to read post 103.

114 posted on 05/09/2006 3:34:30 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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To: FormerLib

"Killed for being in a dangerous situation"?

Millions of women, myself included, have been in exactly the same situation Natalee was in - even hundreds who were with her - and they were not "killed for being in a dangerous situation."


115 posted on 05/09/2006 3:36:19 PM PDT by Rte66
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To: DJ MacWoW
point well taken , there's just this 'shattered skull' point in my mind that leads me to feel this was barbaric. when in muslim lands do you practice wife beating ? child molestation? when in rome was used multiple times on this thread
116 posted on 05/09/2006 3:42:10 PM PDT by kinoxi
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To: kinoxi

"they broke this person's skull. if you feel it was inappropriate as i do, stop posting to me on this subject"

We do agree on some level, but we disagree on how concerned one should be. I will not lose sleep tonight over this event. In fact, I might want to bash their heads as well, but my ethics would prevent it. That does not mean that I think it's very cute behavior and great for society. Do you not get my point here?


117 posted on 05/09/2006 3:43:10 PM PDT by mutley
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To: mutley

(...smashed his skull with a tire iron)

Could have been described "...hit in the head with a tire iron", but it wouldn't as dramatic.


118 posted on 05/09/2006 3:45:28 PM PDT by RetSignman (He who angers you...controls you.)
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To: RetSignman

"Could have been described "...hit in the head with a tire iron", but it wouldn't as dramatic."

Good point. According to some, this event should come with more drastification. Did I just invent a useful word?


119 posted on 05/09/2006 3:50:53 PM PDT by mutley
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To: kinoxi

It was barbaric. But they weren't in Kansas anymore. Despite the self-hate from the left, America is a fairly "safe" country and there's no place like it. But Americans are at risk when leaving home. Truthfully, if given a chance to travel, I would not. The idea is to relax, not "keep your guard up".


120 posted on 05/09/2006 3:51:18 PM PDT by DJ MacWoW (If you think you know what's coming next....You don't know Jack.)
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