To: R. Scott
Sorry for your loss. I think you did the right thing by backing off. When my first husband and I divorced I was hurting pretty bad, but I figured it was a good time for self reflection. So I took about 3 years to heal myself. I'm glad I did.
I think after a major life change, most people are vunerable and open to being taken advantage of. I wish Art all the best and you too.
238 posted on
04/16/2006 5:56:45 PM PDT by
Vicki
(Washington State where anyone can vote .... illegals, non-residents or anyone just passing through)
To: Vicki
I think after a major life change, most people are vunerable and open to being taken advantage of.
Or (rarely) just the opposite. After my divorce from my first wife I was so afraid of any deep relationship I ran scared for 15 years! Plenty of girlfriends, but any hint of love or (horrors!) marriage and I bolted like a rabbit. Fortunately Sheryl cured me. Im in something similar to that now, afraid losing another loved wife to death.
I really should be looking for another cure.
295 posted on
04/17/2006 4:01:08 AM PDT by
R. Scott
(Humanity i love you because when you're hard up you pawn your Intelligence to buy a drink)
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