Well, this last year, after being asked for weeks, I finally went out with a guy to a really nice restaurant, nice ambiance... and the first thing he started talking about was how his wife died, all the gorey details of the operation, being cut open and the ooze, etc. I literally almost threw up over my seafood. And I have a very high gag reflex. LOL! Talking about an ex- is bad on the first date, but this was morbid.
OMG! How tacky!
I think he just wanted to assure you she wouldn't be re-entering the picture.