Thanks - he's TalonDJ. We didn't have any trouble deciding because he has a real job and I'm finishing up at grad school. If you can't compromise on something as basic as where to live, then I don't think the relationship would work.
Hmm, I shouldn't hang around this thread or Talon might think I'm getting cold feet :-D
OK, I've seen him around.
I agree, but oftentimes both people have family in a certain place. I have a good friend who married a girl from Reno, NV (he lives here) and they are having problems, mainly because (he feels) she resents him for making her move instead of moving to Reno. Although, at the time, his mother was ill, and she was jobless...