One of the problems is now a days, is infidelity to some degree is readily available with no effort.
In the old days I suppose men and women had to find affairs at the local watering holes, women stayed home and having an affair took effort to find and hide.
Speed up to the High Tech World, now you have Computers The Internet, Cell Phones, text messaging, email, it takes no effort. People that are unhappy for a day a month a year or all the time can find someone other, than spouse to play around with.
How many married men look at Porn? does that set them up to find Sally, Linda or Maryjane in real life????
I believe Commitment and loyalt,y values and a GOD centered life is what keeps you in line from crossing lines.. No one always feels madly inlove with thier spouse, because they are human and can make many mistakes that irritate you, wether it's you're husband leaving his hair in the sink and not washing it down the drain or dropping food on the floor and not picking it up because his eyes are focused on television habits are annoying....
Cleanliness is next to Godliness...
"I believe Commitment and loyalt,y values and a GOD centered life is what keeps you in line from crossing lines.."
This is what I used to think because my husband has been a born-again Christian for about 30 years and look what is happening to us.
And we have raised our kids as christians and I as the stay at home mom who homeschooled her kids.