[WhyisaTexasgirlinPA]

BS - when you love someone you don't hurt them like this.

I read all the time where people say marriage is work, you have to work at it. That is psychobabble. You work a garden or work a job. Love is easy.

[Woman on Caroline Street]

I agree completely.

[EequalsMC2]

I read all the time where people say marriage is work, you have to work at it. That is psychobabble. You work a garden or work a job. Love is easy

Then why is love a commandment? Love is NOT EASY after so many years, so many trials. Nope. FEELING love is easy, MAKING love is easy.

Loving someone when they are NOT LOVABLE is NOT easy. It is WORK. I know. been there for years!

[grellis]

I read all the time where people say marriage is work, you have to work at it. That is psychobabble.

Amen! Marriage is commitment, among other things, and if two people truly love each other it never feels like work. It feels like the best friendship ever with some wink-wink thrown in for good measure.