I bought our first horse because my daughter wanted one. ("Horses can't be that expensive. How much hay can they eat?")
Now we own three that live in a $50,000 barn. And all three kids (16,14,10) show horses... English and Western, different saddles, tack, etc. (more money)
My daughters show in local shows and 4-H. But next year the 16 year old will start showing on the Arab circuit. (English, Western) My son wants to stop showing and just do Speed Events.
I am the one in charge of getting the horses ready... transitions, lead changes, head set, etc. I'm 2 years new to horses but love it all.
For myself, I work the horses in lessons, trail ride 3-4 times per week and have started some barrel racing.
My buddy wants me to begin penning. Maybe I will start that this year. Who knows.
Heh - great! All that sounds great! You have company here... many with daughters who are showing or competing, and all who understand the expenses involved!
No kids here... that's why we aren't sure why we have a pony :~D She's a very cute pony though :~D
The cheapest thing about a horse is the purchase:')
Welcome to the club! I will be doing the "pinging" in the morning, and will add you, if you like.