Lysie - my vote is with this solution. Steel yourself and think of the whole family. She has been playing you like a harp and it is time to stop resonating.
All my love and prayers - be strong or things will get worse. You need YOUR health to help others.
She's at the senior center. I've calmed down a bit.
I'm going to back off on any major decisions until after I talk to her doctor...tomorrow, but one thing I know for certain....I'm never getting this upset over her...again. I've reached the point of no return and whatever decision is made...whether let her sleep in or wake her up it will now be made in a matter of fact way with little or no emotion.
No more games and if she lies in bed moaning and groaning I'm closing her door like I did yesterday. I don't want to see it...I don't want to hear it.
BBL Taking Sarah to work.
Love you all.