I think the same argument can be said about women wanting a man that is : Tall, Not Fat , Educated , Wealthy.
what about balding???
Take Donald Trump for instance....Any of those beautiful women like him for his personality? Or looks?
Or Wallet....wait, we have a winner!!
Here's the dirty secret about attraction: people don't want what they think they want. They just want the feelings associated with being with the type of person they want to be with.
It's the feelings people covet - it's not so much that I very strongly want fit, young, leggy, buxom women. I just want the feelings that my mind has associated with being with a woman who fits that description.
And the truth is, I can have those feelings with a woman who doesn't fit that criteria. It's the feelings we want, more so that the actual thing.