To: Prophet in the wilderness
I think the same argument can be said about women wanting a man that is : Tall, Not Fat , Educated , Wealthy.Here's the dirty secret about attraction: people don't want what they think they want. They just want the feelings associated with being with the type of person they want to be with.
It's the feelings people covet - it's not so much that I very strongly want fit, young, leggy, buxom women. I just want the feelings that my mind has associated with being with a woman who fits that description.
And the truth is, I can have those feelings with a woman who doesn't fit that criteria. It's the feelings we want, more so that the actual thing.
To: HitmanNY
Just like with a new car, a good movie, hair style, after a while, people, men and women in general get " BORED " with the same old thing.
Now, in this statement, the quote " Same OLD thing " is not meant to be necessarily associated with time, but, even after eating pizza over and over again , night after night, you get tired it or bored with it after while and want something different.
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