Listen pal, you said you have an above average job, making more money than most people your age.
Your wife "stays home and takes care of the kid."
There is absolutely NO reason there should be ANY chores to do when you get home from work if she's been in the house all day.
Ignore EVERYTHING she says when she nags you about the garbage and leaving socks on the floor. She doesn't have a leg to stand on. You work full time to pay the bills. She's a babysitter.
But, more than likely, your wife is going to divorce you, she's probably had a lawyer for 2 or 3 months. Get a lawyer, ASAP.
What a vicious SOB you are.............a stay at home mom is just a "babysitter" to you? There are very few men on this planet that have what it takes to be that kind of "babysitter."