You need to read "10 Stupid things Men do to Ruin their Lives" by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. You also need to find a Promisekeepers (Promise Keepers?) group of fathers/husbands near you.
http://www.promisekeepers.org/
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This male bashing trash has infected the church - I'm sorry, there are probably some bad Fathers/husbands out there, but this crap just turns me off.