Lordy...you have far more than your fair share of work related mini-dramas, Ruthy! Hope that all works out...but it sounds tough.
I'm optimistic by nature, so I know it'll sort itself out in the long run.
My selfish reason for being bummed out is that I enjoy a great working relationship with the other reps in my department and now I'm afraid of being labelled as the "boss's sister" and thus, left out of the loop when it comes to the joking around, ragging on management sessions we have now and again.
I know it's a matter of time before I walk into a room one day and everyone will stop talking when they see it's me, rather than "C'mere, we gotta tell ya this!". :-(