I understand the smoking ambivalence. It may be that the change in climate has made you more sensitive. I know it does so to my mother simply when they come to visit me from the Hill Country. All the vegetation here on the coast sends her sinuses reeling.
I for one don't ever mind if its cigar or pipe smoke (Ive been known to smoke a Partagas or two once in a while.) Some of the loveliest smells to me...but cigarettes! I have an asthmatic reaction to them...can't draw in oxygen while the smoke floats around me. Too busy trying to breathe to notice any smell...
Tomorrow is first day of school for Miss Giggle Face. WHAT A RELIEF!! (arent I a bad mommy?!) (she goes to private school)
Oh, you're a bad mother, all right. Just wait until the next time you say something like "No, you may not have thirds of ice cream" and ask her.
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