It's tough, as you know. I'll keep both your Grandmother and your Mom in my prayers. I'm sure your Mom is worried for herself, as well.
Just my tiny little tribute:
"May I beg you to tell me what kind of man he was?"
"...It sounds absurd, as I tell it, does it not? And was it another man, any other man, you would cry out 'oh, what pitiful stuff!' and dismiss it as mere enthusiasm; but with him you feel your bosom glow..." Jack Aubrey - Master and Commander, p116.
One for the Gipper :
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