Well, mostly I just mean that the type of music we play and the quality varies widely depending on just who shows up. Some weeks are WONDERFUL, and everything clicks and it's fun to play and listen; some weeks all the wrong players show up and it's dreadful. Last week wasn't so hot...lotta people playing the WRONG CHORDS, VERY, VERY LOUDLY.
And in the audience department, there's yet another guy I think is kinda cute but know nothing about. Hm...can that be an acronym? Only thing I know so far is that he's the second cousin of my best friend growin' up, but around here, that isn't too surprising. And it probably means he's about as far from religous (of any kind) as you can get.
Sigh... cute but the wrong religion, or areligious... not good, but you can look a little, maybe.
Again I'll suggest that you really ought to consider moving to a state with fewer liberals. Or gay couples.