I just knew you would understand. That is what I have always done with the handshake. But, that kissy kissy in the air over another woman's cheek dismayed me. LOL
Oh, it is so delightful, really, to charm with a southern accent (natural, not contrived) and get them to talk on and on and on of themselves...until my eyes glaze over. Now, I not talking of my friends here, but those corporate folks.
Hey, I may not have lost my touch, afterall. LOL
I would just bet you haven't. Remember the kissy kissy thing is reserved only for the 'best' of friends. LOL. I avoid that if at all possible. Haven't been kissy kissied in a long time. To forestall that, I simply place a hand on their arm, lean toward them, step back and admire their dress, hair, general appearance, etc., and comment on it. :) They feel greeted, special, and unmussed. :)I then comment on their home, child, car, tennis game, golf game, whatever they are into and go on to the next wonderful person. :)
Another thing, never, ever get drunk at a Company party. (not that you drink, of course, but general rules for getting established)
Remember the only thing a guest owes her hostess is to mix, mingle, talk and enjoy yourself. :)
(within reason) LOL.