[RosieCotton]

Friendships are better than dating if all you intend to do is break up.

Yeah, that's exactly it. And it's best to get to know someone pretty well in a group before going any further in a relationship.

My Dad had all of us read books on courtship and marriage, and for the most part has very traditional views, as do I. On the other hand, I'm 27...I don't expect a guy to ask Dad's permission before saying hello.

[JenB]

No, but if you wanted to test him, you could tell the guy to call your dad and ask.

Heh, what I think would be appropriate would be the guy asking you if he could ask your father to court you. It's your life, not your dad's. But asking the dad shows some respect. And that his intentions are honorable.