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I seriesly can't recall being attracted to anyone other than Steve (Mel Gibson doesn't count) in the last 16 years at least...we dated off and on for 4 years before we got married and I even dated other guys during that 4 years and found them to be boring! Ha! Not very many people that know Steve find him all that "thrilling" I guess, but I do and always have. Must be some kind of Dwarvish/Rohirrim chemistry! Ha ha!!

Does Steve show you the same courtesy with not being alone with other women?

Actually, that's kinda what got this all started! Steve was working for a sod farm and was working late one night when he came in and told me about a conversation he'd had with the female receptionist...the only other person in the office. I didn't like that nonetall...not because I didn't trust him, but because I didn't know or trust HER! She could have made any number of claims against him.

So we made an agreement then, I guess Matthew was a year old. Never to allow ourselves to be in compromising positions.

It's very comfortable for me. I like it!

I must not have made myself all that clear...attracted for me just means I thought he was real cute (Mel cute)...not any serious kind of attraction...Nad was the same for me...I was seeing other guys too during the first year of our relationship but knew all along that he was the one...just had to convince him. :-) Took 3 more years, but I twisted his arm...can't believe that was 16 years ago...wow.
He sang in my ear when I met him (Every Breath You Take) and I was hooked. *swoon*

mrsnad

I didn't know or trust HER! She could have made any number of claims against him.

SSQ is very sensitive to that as well. He doesn't even like it when Clare's friends come over and are up and down from her room. I would never leave him alone with them in the house for HIS protection. He has had this drilled into him at work as well since the big media push about sexual harassment. Our concern is how would he ever get his reputation back after a false accusation.

He doesn't feel the same urgency about me, because he doesn't see me being put into that position. I guess it's because there's not much in the way of accusations of men (or boys) against women.