[HairOfTheDog]

It will be fun!

I am trying to keep a balance between underplanning it as if it isn't important, and overplanning it so it becomes more about the details than the wedding.

It is important to get married. Matching stationary and table decorations and corsages aren't. Not for me.

[Wneighbor]

I am trying to keep a balance between underplanning it as if it isn't important, and overplanning it so it becomes more about the details than the wedding.

And I am trying to keep my mouth shut and not tell you things. LOL

Reason being, it sounds like the wedding you want was much the same as the one Dennis and I had. And I thought ours was great. But, I also think that I may be projecting my idea into your mind!

The only thing I told people was come ready to have fun. And if there was a color scheme at all it was bright colors like a Mardi Gras party! Matter of fact, IIRC Peggy, PurpleQ's mom who was my maid of honor wore a Hawaiin shirt... gotta go check the photos now to see... I'm curious.

[Wneighbor]

Yep, Peggy and a couple of other people had Hawaiian prints at our wedding. I never thought about that till today. :-D Our napkins and plates were the regular grocery store stuff. But, we got bright colors.