[Wneighbor]

I am trying to keep a balance between underplanning it as if it isn't important, and overplanning it so it becomes more about the details than the wedding.

And I am trying to keep my mouth shut and not tell you things. LOL

Reason being, it sounds like the wedding you want was much the same as the one Dennis and I had. And I thought ours was great. But, I also think that I may be projecting my idea into your mind!

The only thing I told people was come ready to have fun. And if there was a color scheme at all it was bright colors like a Mardi Gras party! Matter of fact, IIRC Peggy, PurpleQ's mom who was my maid of honor wore a Hawaiin shirt... gotta go check the photos now to see... I'm curious.

[HairOfTheDog]

WN, I don't mind any suggestions at all! Sonya does it too... I may cringe when I hear suggestions that sound like a lot of fru-fru.... but parts of the ideas seep in, and comes out later as a plan.