A lot of them make all the wrong choices in 'men', in part, because of their own collection of issues that kinda drives making those bad decisions ...
I can testify to that in, oh, three, maybe four people (women) I have known and continue, in a couple of cases, see on an irregular basis ...
Largely, though, I'd say it was the women who have 'screwed up' our society - those vocal, few feminists who have basically emasculated (literally: deprived a man of his male role or identity) the male in media/movies and to which the pop culture public pays some fair amount of attention to the detriment of our society as men 'lose' their ability to fulfill their role ...
A 'move' should have been made earlier by you gals to put those feminist hussies in their place early on and we most likely wouldn't be having this discussion!
(I just finished cooking a marvelous casserole for dinner using stewed tomatoes in place of just tomato sauce (I also used a can of tomato paste!) and served with sour cream or plain yogurt it tastes just *wonderful*!)