I completely disagree with the Beretta Bobcat or Tomcat. The strength needed to pull the trigger is beyond many seniors, especially women. Instead, I recommend a Taurus TCP .380. Much easier to handle and maintain. I know several people who own them and given the concerns one may have concerns about Taurus, they are outstanding.
Love my Taurus 709 “Slim” 9mm! Single stack, fits in my pocket, and, I’ve never had a problem with it. My two cents.