Posted on 05/22/2023 4:00:41 PM PDT by nickcarraway
DEAR ABBY: I’m a 32-year-old woman. My 20s were spent in a serious long-term relationship. It was a lot of firsts for me. After we split, I took a couple of years to sow my wild oats and find out who I am as an individual.
I’m now looking for something more than “friends with benefits.” However, the last few men I’ve met and gone on dates with, as wholesome as they seemed on dating sites (which have been my main source of meeting men), were really just looking for hookups. I want to find a life partner.
I have been chatting with a potentially great guy I met online, and we have a date scheduled. But I’m nervous that when we meet that he’ll expect more than a date. I’m over that. Like I said, I want an actual relationship.
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You’re sick.
OP offered a healthy suggestion;
“Go to a church picnic girl.”
Your reply to the above post;
“That’s where gay people go to hook up these days.”
The twisted, rude one is YOU.
1- it’s a rude slam on every Jesus follower
2- your words hint that you seem to know where the homosexuals hang out.
Plainly seen here by everyone;
https://freerepublic.com/focus/backroom/4155143/posts?page=33#33
I merely called you out on your nastiness.
Your reaction hints at a personality disorder which lacks the basic humility to admit it when you’re simply rude to others.
Still, this is your problem.
...you’ll get over it.
So you acted like a 304, rode the cack careousel, and now the biological clock is ticking, and you dont want to be caught with out a seat in the dating game of musical chairs when the music stops?
Wondering "where have all the good men gone"? Well they were getting scooped up while you believed in feminist lies. Im sure all those years of being pumped an dumped have made her quite a catch!
And for any decent guy who dates her, has to wait for bedroom fun, get starfish seggs, and then hears she let randos raw dawg her at the foam canon party at the Cancun nightclub...he is going to pump and dump her. For recreational use only.
Thats a great line.
Exactly
the message her to women....don't let any guy string you along....if he's not proposing marriage within several months to a year, dump his arse....he has no intention of a marriage, just a convenient shackup....
Oh btw, mainline churches are also the refuge of garden tools looking for a husband in their 30s. The shaming tactics played on good men to “man up” and marry those sloots is ridiculous. (hat tip dalrock). Comes complete with sun hat hat and floral dress (to cover up tramp stamp), maybe with kids from different baby daddys.
women do not be strung along...just stop these shallow relationships..have respect for yourselves...
That’s exactly what happens. These women view men in two classes, the boyfriend and the husband. The boyfriend gets everything that she can offer. When she finally finds the man who will marry her and be her husband, he gets dutiful sex only, at least she has the number she wants, then he goes back to his days of celibacy until the kids are 18.
As a male, if you’re not wanted in your 20’s, you are going to be used when some woman finally claims interest in you because you became a good provider. She will barely tolerate you inbetween those two week periods.
Unless there have been children, then you are stuck taking the abuse or she will divorce you and take half your assets and child support.
If you throw a rock into a pack of dogs, the one that barks loudest is the one that got hit.
been there done that!! lol... divorced 10 years ago! CS ended 3 years ago on the 3rd kid and now life is good.
I’m very happy for you.
It’s unfortunate that is the state of male-female relations today. Women allow themselves to be used and then they take it out on the guy that agrees to marry them.
Alpha seed, beta need. With todays fem centric society and laws, and unfettered hypergamy, no wonder relationships are in the toilet.
3. Asset protection. Family law.
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yeah...that’s a cute quote.
Your rock got me!
You indetified a true follower of Jesus
However, my rock hit the expert on homo hangouts when you whimpered.
...see how that works?
“TRUE follower?
Thanks for the info.
Now I know how a TRUE follower of Jesus is supposed to act.
You are an inspiration to us all.
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